Writing for Women’s Health, Alison Goldman asked for the tangible items, experiential gifts, and even the actions that money can’t buy that meant the most to breast cancer patients during their treatment process and their recovery. Here’s what I shared:
A Listening Ear
For Kate Catlin Payne, of Raleigh, North Carolina, the most thoughtful gift was an ear. “The pregnancy pillow saved my life post-mastectomy and the comforts, kind notes, flowers, and treats absolutely lifted by heart tremendously,” she says. “But the people who had the guts to ask how I was doing and really push to listen and hear all of my fears and feelings—that is so thoughtful.”
Kate adds that when someone really sits with you and wants to hear you and learn and support, it is so appreciated. “Oh, and if they’ll also wash your hair because you can’t shower for 10 days post-mastectomy, that is super thoughtful too!”